Rabbis on all sides as gay marriage bill passes
Christie promises veto as NJ Senate votes for measure by 24-16
Rabbi Matthew Gewirtz asked what interest the state can have “in drawing a distinction between the relationships of these committed couples and those of their heterosexual friends?”
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February 15, 2012
A last-minute effort by Orthodox opponents had no apparent effect as the New Jersey State Senate passed a measure legalizing gay marriage by a wider than expected 24-16 margin.
A vote in the State Assembly was scheduled for Feb. 16. Gov. Chris Christie has promised a veto; the Democrats who sponsored the bill have until the end of the legislative session in 2014 to override that veto.
In the Senate, that would require gaining three more votes.
Liberal rabbis welcomed the vote and urged Christie to sign the “marriage equality” bill into law.
Writing in The Star-Ledger, Rabbi Matthew Gewirtz of the Reform Temple B’nai Jeshurun in Short Hills opined that Christie’s veto would promote the theological understandings of one group over another, while depriving “some citizens of the rights enjoyed by others.”
“What possible interest can the state have,” wrote Gewirtz, “in drawing a distinction between the relationships of these committed couples and those of their heterosexual friends?”
His essay was written with the Rev. Mark M. Beckwith, bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Newark, and the Rev. E. Roy Riley Jr., bishop of the NJ Synod of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America.
On Sunday night, before the vote, an Orthodox group calling itself Torah Values Defense placed what it said were 25,000 “robocalls,” urging NJ residents to call their state senator in opposition to the bill.
Rabbi Nosson Leiter of Monsey, NY, a TVD organizer and spokesman for the Lakewood-based Garden State Parents for Moral Values, called the bill “very anti-Torah, anti-moral, anti-American.”
Leiter was one of two Orthodox rabbis who testified in opposition to gay marriage in committee hearings last month, along with Rabbi Moshe Bresler of Lakewood. Ten rabbis — from Conservative, Reform, and Reconstructionist congregations — testified in favor.
The two state-wide Orthodox organizations that regularly lobby in Trenton — the Institute of Public Affairs of the Orthodox Union and Agudath Israel — did not testify at last month’s hearings.
Instead, the OU worked with the legislation’s lead sponsors, Senate Majority Leader Loretta Weinberg and Sen. Ray Lesniak, to include protections for the religious liberties of institutions opposed to same-sex marriage.
In a statement, the OU repeated its opposition “to the redefinition of marriage” and the legislation, while expressing gratitude for the protection of their religious liberty.
“Disturbingly, in too many states, those acting on their religious beliefs have seen government benefits withheld; government funds, contracts, and services denied; and privileges such as tax exemptions revoked. We are hopeful that New Jersey’s bill will be enacted and enforced in a manner that ensures that this will not happen here and that employers, social service providers, and houses of worship will be free to uphold their faith,” said the statement.
Rabbi David Greenstein of Congregation Shomrei Emunah, a Conservative congregation in Montclair, compared opponents of gay marriage to inhabitants of Sodom.
“The real sin of Sodom,” he said, citing the Talmud, is “to be opposed to someone deriving a benefit where their derivation of benefit causes no harm.”
Comments
Jay
February 16, 2012
Here’s alink to Rabbi Gewirtz’s oped:
http://blog.nj.com/njv_guest_blog/2012/02/on_gay_marriage_nj_should_not.html
Carly
February 17, 2012
It makes me incredibly proud to be Jewish when I see rabbis standing up for gay rights. Dan Cohen performed my wife Sarah’s and my wedding/civil union and I know that he and several other rabbis testified before the legislature in support of same sex marriage. Speaking personally, when I was in high school being in NFTY was the only time I could be out and proud and feel supported. I grew up believing in gay rights thanks to Reform Judaism, even before I came out, and it is because of some of the rabbis I’ve gotten to know as an adult that a new generation of Jewish kids will grow up with the same support and beliefs. Thank you to all the rabbis who went down to Trenton in the past few weeks!
Molly Gordy
February 22, 2012
Matt Gewirtz cut his rabbinic teeth at Congregation Rodeph Sholom, where Associate Rabbi Lisa Grushcow, a Canadian, has been married for years to Rabbi Andrea Meyers, with whom she has two children. How much poorer would we all be without them, both as spiritual leaders and as a wonderful family. Go Rabbi Matt!
Esther
May 31, 2012
“Rabbi David Greenstein of Congregation Shomrei Emunah, a Conservative congregation in Montclair, compared opponents of gay marriage to inhabitants of Sodom.
“The real sin of Sodom,” he said, citing the Talmud, is “to be opposed to someone deriving a benefit where their derivation of benefit causes no harm.”
God is an opponent of gay marriage.
And who says it dosn’t cause any harm?
A boy needs a father for a role model, and a mother to cook and shop, and to sympithize, and of course, only his father can understand him, because he too was once a boy.
A girl needs a Mother for a role model, a father to look up to, and obviously only her Mom can understand her feelings because she too was once a youndg girl.
“ten rabbis…Conservative, Reform, and Reconstructionist “
If you want to represent the jewish people, you have to know what the jewish people represent.
If Obama stands by the jewish people, than how come he dosn’t respect our point of view?
Personally, I just think Obama is kissing up to all of the “minorities” because all together we are a lot more than even all of the opposers.