Respite room comforts family of sick kids
Former State Sen. Bill Baroni, center, of the Port Authority of NY & NJ, receives the Ner Tamid Award from Rutgers Chabad, with, from left, Rabbi Mendy Carlebach, a Port Authority chaplain; dinner cochair Danny Kahane; Rutgers Chabad executive director Rabbi Yosef Carlebach; and dinner cochair Jerold Zaro.
Photos courtesy Michael Cohen Photography
December 11, 2013
Rabbi Yosef Carlebach’s grandson was born last year with a heart condition so serious doctors gave him little chance of surviving.
However, after “many surgeries” that took him around the country and finally to the Children’s Specialized Hospital in New Brunswick, the boy, Mendel Avtzon, is expected to fully recover.
Along the way to that recovery, Carlebach said, he was given the unexpected opportunity to perform mitzvot for others. The infant’s condition also gave the executive director of Rutgers Chabad the chance to meet and ultimately partner with the hospital’s president and CEO, Amy B. Mansue, to help others facing the serious illness of a child.
At the 35th annual founders’ day dinner on Dec. 3 at Chabad House in New Brunswick, Mansue was honored for her role in funding a bikur holim room at Chabad House for parents of seriously ill children being treated at the hospital.
The facility will serve as a refuge where they can sleep, take a shower, and eat kosher meals within walking distance of the hospital. CSH is affiliated with the Robert Wood Johnson Healthcare System, and the room will also be available to families of patients at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital or other affiliated institutions.
The already functioning suite of two connecting rooms has a private entrance, bathroom, coffee area, couches, and beds. A similar bikur holim suite was donated last year by St. Peter’s University Hospital in New Brunswick.
“We’ve found that parents of sick children need a longer stay than those with other family members” in the hospital, Carlebach told `.
Also honored at the dinner was former State Sen. Bill Baroni, deputy executive director of the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey. He was given the Ner Tamid Award on the seventh night of Hanukka for his role in ensuring the lighting of hanukkiot at Port Authority sites, including at its bridges and tunnels.
Rabbi Mendy Carlebach of Chabad of North and South Brunswick said he and Baroni had lit a menora the previous night at 7 World Trade Center in lower Manhattan.
While the dinner raised about $700,000 toward the amount needed to complete the final phase — a Sephardi synagogue and international coffee house — of Rutgers Chabad’s $12 million expansion in New Brunswick, funds continued to come in over the next several days allowing it to reach the $1 million goal.
Mendel Avtzon’s mother, Devorah Leah Avtzon of Brooklyn, told the crowd of 350 that her family refused to accept the boy’s diagnosis and found a doctor at Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital at Stanford University in California who successfully treated him. A nurse there introduced herself to Yosef Carlebach as a former Rutgers student from East Brunswick. That Friday night she lit Shabbat candles for the first time with him and his family.
On Stanford’s recommendation, Mendel was transferred to the New Brunswick hospital. “For the first time in five months they humanized Mendel,” she said. The boy was hospitalized for nine of his first 13 months.
Former NJ Gov. Jim Florio introduced Mansue, whose served as deputy commissioner of the state Department of Human Services while Florio was in office.
Parade of lights
WITH LARGE MENORAS atop their cars, a caravan of students from Rutgers Chabad made their way through the campuses of Rutgers University and through downtown Highland Park to celebrate the sixth night of Hanukka.
The brainchild of four students active in Chabad — Jasmine Moradi of West Orange, Talia Friedman and Debra Zauderer of Teaneck, and Effy Gittler of Cherry Hill — the Dec. 2 parade of about 20 cars was a first-time event for the university community.
The parade kicked off with the lighting of a giant menora at Brower Commons on the College Avenue campus in New Brunswick before leaving on its journey through New Brunswick, Piscataway, and Highland Park.
Friedman, a junior, said she and the others wanted to do something original to celebrate the holiday. “We thought of the Hanukka parade and I’m really proud of it.”
“People loved it,” said Moradi. “People were waving and smiling, even people who clearly weren’t Jewish.” The freshman said they also stopped along the way to hand out candles and hanukkiot to students.
“We wanted to show and share with everyone this is the Festival of Lights. It was really a beautiful parade.”
— DEBRA RUBIN